Devi speaks with Mariotta Gary-Smith. “It’s Your Pleasure & Mine! Find out what it means to be a sexologist & sexuality educator;the importance of sex education in a sex negative culture & the importance of honoring Women of Color in this … Continue reading
Devi speaks with Joan Price about Sex After 50. Joan’s mission is to change society’s view of boomer/senior/elder sex, one mind at a time, and to help seniors get the information they need to maintain or regain a joyful sex life. Joan’s latest and most comprehensive book is The Ultimate Guide to Sex after 50: How to Maintain – or Regain! – a Spicy, Satisfying Sex Life.
*Why we don’t see sexy seniors in the media?
*What misconceptions do seniors have about their own sex lives?
*What are some of the issues that seniors report to you as interfering with a good sex life?
*Sex toys for seniors?
*Tips for having better sex.
About Joan Price ~
Joan Price ( ) calls herself an advocate for ageless sexuality. She has been called other things by the media: “senior sexpert,” “the beautiful face of senior sex,” and—her favorite—”wrinkly sex kitten.” She is the author of the new Ultimate Guide to Sex After 50: How to Maintain – or Regain! – a Spicy, Satisfying Sex Life; the award-winning self-help book, Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex; and the sexy memoir, Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty. Joan continues to talk out loud about senior sex — partnered or solo – in speeches and workshops, and on her zesty blog about sex and aging – .
Connect with Joan at:
Email address: firstname.lastname@example.org
Website address: http://www.joanprice.com/
LinkedIn: Joan Price
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoanPriceAuthor(@Naked at Out Age by Joan Price)
Award-winning blog about sex & aging: http://www.NakedAtOurAge.com
Available now: The Ultimate Guide to Sex After 50: How to Maintain – or Regain! – a Spicy, Satisfying Sex Life(Cleis Press)
On September 1st, 2012 I will officially begin my 66 days of self-pleasure, which could more accurately be titled 66 days of celibacy, except that I WILL be having sex. Lots of it. Just with myself and no-one else. For … Continue reading
Tantra is a word that is casually thrown around these days, yet many people remain ignorant to the true healing and transformative power of this ancient and sacred art.
So what are some tangible benefits of Authentic Tantric Practices?
Here are 10 ways in which Authentic Tantra can improve your physical health and intimate relationships!
Tantric orgasms on a regular basis affect our physical, emotional and mental health by:
1) Boosting infection fighting cells by 20%
2) Stimulating and increasing secretions of the pineal and pituitary glands, thereby positively affecting brain and body chemistry
3) Revitalizing the endocrine glands for more HGH, seratonin, DHEA, and testosterone production. DHEA is believed to improve brain function, balance the immune system, help maintain and repair tissue, promote healthy skin, and improve cardiovascular health.
4) Frequent and powerful orgasms increase the hormone levels of oxytocin. Oxytocin is linked to personality, passion, social skills, emotional quotient, all of which affect career, marriage, emotional health, and social skills
5) Tantric orgasms on a regular basis have the ability to alleviate depression, prolong life-span, strengthen immune system, and improve quality of life.
6) Tantric sexual practices have the ability to correct many sexually related issues for women such as:
- Enabling non-orgasmic women to become multi-orgasmic
- Enabling women to become sexually expressive and personally empowered.
7) Tantric sexual practices have the ability to correct many sexually related issues for men such as:
- Enabling men to retain long, strong, and powerful erections well into their old age
- Enabling men to become multi-orgasmic and improve mental focus and energy by retaining vital essences lost through involuntary ejaculation.
8) Can enhance relationships by cultivating a deeper sense of intimacy and connection
9) Can build and increase trust by regularly practicing communication skills
10) Uses orgasmic pleasure to heal sexual trauma and blocks to intimacy!
Tantric sexual practices are simple, easy, fun, and highly effective! To learn more, please visit us at Tantric Arts of Love.com and Sex Passion Vancouver.ca. Visit Devi Ward at Feminine Emergence for Tantra and Sensual Enrichment for Women.
Sex is fantastic. Aside from just feeling REALLY good, it’s also healthy for you physically, mentally and emotionally, i.e. boosting infection fighting cells by 20%, improving brain function, and increasing cell renewal.
That’s not to mention how it enhances the feelings of closeness between you and your partner, thus energizing the mutual connection and attraction between you.
But let’s face it, even the best sex life can get somewhat boring and routine over time. For many couples, the initial passion that inflamed the early days of their relationship, dwindles to a small ember over time, as we get bogged down in the day to day routine of “keeping it all together” in our lives. We lose connection; to ourselves and to our partners.
But, it’s that deep, juicy, intimate connection that is fuel for the fire of our sexual passion and pleasure! Here are 3 easy, simple, and effective Authentic Tantra methods for deepening that sense of intimate connection between you and your partner, and enhancing your sexual passion both in, and out of the bedroom!
#1) Breath together!
Our breath is the gateway to the present moment, and our ability to connect to our partner (and ourselves) lies here, now, in this moment.
Very often we go through our days so caught up in the rush of our modern lives, that we forget to breathe! Becoming conscious of our breath makes us conscious of our bodies, which in turn, makes us present to the moment.
How does this affect our sex? The more present we are in our bodies, the more aware we are of sensations, particularly sexual sensations. We aren’t able to truly experience the fullness of our pleasure, if we are off somewhere in our minds thinking about the dishes, our homework, or what so-and-so said at the office, right?
By slowing down, and breathing deeply, we connect with our bodies, we connect with each other, we connect with the pulse and rhythm of life itself.
#2) Eye-gazing, i.e. LOOK at each other!
They say that the eyes are the windows to the soul. For certain the eyes hold many truths about our inner thoughts and feelings. There is a discernable level of non-verbal communication that occurs when we meet eye to eye. Many people may feel vulnerable or shy about making eye-contact during lovemaking, and we encourage them to do it anyway!
There is a profound depth of intimacy and connection that occurs when we are able look deeply into our partners eyes, while making love. Emotional barriers gently dissolve, and we begin to relax and open to one another on a level much deeper than the conscious mind. Stress melts away, and we are able to feel connected to ourselves, to each other, to our bodies, and to our pleasure!
#3) Express Yourself!
I am continuously amazed at how both women and men will engage in the most intimate act that 2 people can engage in, and yet be terrified of talking to each other about their pleasure, during the act itself.
Sex is a team sport, and Tantric sex even more so! And the goal? Pleasure! The most fulfilling pleasure that we are able to experience in that moment. AND, just like any other “team-sport” the players MUST be in communication about what plays are definitely working, and which ones are not!
This does not require a continuous stream of conversation. Gentle loving tones of encouragement are all that is required, but be sure to use your words! Moans are nice, but they are NOT always a clear form of communication.
Many people we speak with find moans open to interpretation, and prefer a spoken “yes that’s really nice”, or “yes, I like that”, to the nebulousness of a well placed moan. Words of appreciation and encouragement are the magic keys to getting the most out of our intimate sexual connection. And if we ask for what we want (in gentle loving tones), we’ll probably get it!
By using these 3 simple Authentic Tantra methods, you can easily deepen the intimate connection between you and your partner, and transform your ordinary sex into an extraordinary garden of delightful pleasure, for you both!
Register for your FREE Authentic Tantra Online Education Course, and begin learning Authentic Tantra no matter where you are, in the comfort & privacy of your own home.
It helps to understand why we are NOT, so that we can address the core issue.
Women hold emotional/sexual stress or trauma in the vagina, most specifically the G-spot.
So any negative or painful sexual experience that we have had as adults or children, is stored as an emotional imprint in our sexual organs.
This emotional imprint deadens, or numbs the sensation in our sexual organs, so that we are unable to feel our full “pleasure potential”.
The medicine for this, so to speak, can be found in the application of Tantric methods such as, Vulva & G-spot massage, Tantric breathing methods, and healing visualizations.
I began this Tantric path nearly 4 years ago, NON-orgasmic, intercourse was painful, and I did not believe in this mysterious G-spot.
I now can have as many as 10-30 orgasms in a session, I ejaculate regularly, and I have experienced at least 5 of the 8 types of orgasms that women are capable of.
It truly, truly, is a simple as learning WHAT to do, HOW to do, WHY you do it, and then DOING IT!