Since I wrote the recent article on optimum frequency for male ejaculation, I have received many questions asking about the correct methods for successful semen retention to last longer in bed.
The main question men have is – HOW to do it effectively, and problems they have with the method they are using.
I remind all of you that Authentic Tantra is a secret oral tradition from great Lineages of masters, and you cannot learn Tantra from a book.
Anyone who possesses the real instruction is well aware of why it is secret and will not reveal it casually.
If they do they are irresponsible about others’ welfare. You don’t take someone who barely can paddle a surfboard big wave surfing, it won’t go well.
True instruction is based on progress. Soon you will be a big wave surfer ,so to speak, but first you must learn to paddle right or you will be stuck on the beach.
That being said, the urge to retain semen is human maturity, if you are an untrained 2 to 7 minute squirter (international average time of penetration), you are having sex like a 14 year old boy.
The method used to retain semen and last longer is critical.
Many men come to me and say something like “I tried semen retention, after a month I was so frustrated I gave up”.
My response is always the same… “what method did you use and did you orgasm without ejaculation?”
Not one ever had a non-ejaculatory orgasm, and all used about the same method.
Of course they were frustrated!!! I would be too.
The basic default method most men try on their own or heard about but never studied is the “anal lock”method.
This involves tightening and holding the semen back with powerful contraction of the PC muscles.
Bottom line it is a shitty method.
Oh it will hold the semen back, but you will not enjoy it, and if you do it with a woman, they definitely do not enjoy it. I have had women come to me in tears because their partner used this method, that is how much they dislike it.
It can also over time lead to retrograde ejaculation which is not that good for us in excess, correct method has no retrograde aspect, instead the semen is transmuted into fabulous chemistries.
The anal lock uses tightness, contraction, witholding emotionally and energetically, all the very things that must be undone to actually orgasm without ejaculation!
So as you can guess I do not teach this useless method, in my opinion a waste of time at best, worse it can create blocks to bliss that require a lot of effort to overcome.
At Authentic Tantra, we teach 5 different semen retention methods for lasting longer in bed. Three are taught to beginners right away, the other 2 in advanced classes. These methods are simple, easy, natural, and very effective.
You can begin using them day-one with good result.
Some of my male students are having whole-body multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms within 1 or 2 years of learning!
This is an amazing result. The key lies in correct instruction and method.
They also were having other types of orgasm before the whole body orgasms began. Men are capable of 6 types of orgasm! Woohoo!
If you ejaculate you only know of 1.
Whole body orgasms for a man are an inconceivable experience. Trying to describe it is like describing any orgasm to someone who has never had one.
Have one and you will know a secret of the Tantric Arts of Love. And women will dig you!!!
The correct instructions are on-line at Authentic Tantra.
Please don’t tell me it costs too much. I watch people drop way more to go snowboarding for 1 day.
We are talking about your sexuality (and your lovers’) for the rest of your life!
I will give you all this core instruction:
All Tantra begins and ends in the heart, this is emotional, energetic and yogic. The fundamental principle of practice is “present relaxed awareness with focus”. Each of these 4 words comes with volumes of instruction, each an aspect of real Tantra, each must be in place , male or female, or good result will not be realized. Start now with each, the instructions for this are in “Intimacy Essentials” course.
In time it will become a single disposition, you will have peace of mind, happiness, calmness along with great sexual love and enjoyment.
I honour every single man who wants to learn this, by changing yourself you are changing the world in a powerful way, so thank you.
Peace and happiness,