As Gedun Chopel said, “if a man cannot retain his semen, a woman will never know the glories of passion”.
Glory by the way is translated as “lights, the lights of God”.
Men are capable of 5 different types of orgasm!
Men can and DO orgasm without ejaculating.
Ejaculation is just ONE flavor of orgasm!
In brief; a man squirts, losing his jing and passion, the loving is over, now he has to recover, which takes 4 to 8 days (by age).
He is turned inward energetically and… is not really available to his lover.
Also, she is unsatisfied and frustrated. The average time of penetration, until ejaculation is between 2 & 10 minutes. Think about it….it takes most people longer to brush their teeth!
By retaining he can make love for as long as he wants, and as he orgasms w/out squirt, he becomes stronger, healthier, and more present.
His orgasms feed his lover in many ways, and she is satisfied and happy w/ him.
He is not depleted and remains emotionally present w/out withdrawal.
This has a powerful effect on relationships!
The connection that results from such lovemaking is vastly deep and clear, blissful in fact.
And, he has no loss of desire for her, wanting her more than ever, and he is ready for her whenever she desires.
How do you think a woman will feel when a man takes several hours to pleasure and delight her in so many ways her head spins, and then he makes love to her until she has literally blown her mind?
Article written by Jacques Drouin